Showing posts with label counter cultural. Show all posts
Showing posts with label counter cultural. Show all posts

Thursday, 29 October 2015

A Happy Death

I have just started reading Abbot (of Worth) Christopher Jamison's Finding Happiness.

Although I have only read the introductory chapter, The History of Happiness, I am already finding it a rich read. The summary of the philosophy of happiness, finding the origins of monastic  happiness in Platonic Contemplation and Aristotelian Virtue, was a good starting point, but it was the section on A Happy Death that really gave me pause for thought.

Abbot Jamison starts by recalling the happy death of one of Worth's great monks, Fr Michael Smith. This clearly had a profound impact on the Abbot and the rest of the community. He then considers what might be the constituent elements of a happy death.
Apart from the usual features of daily care and nourishment, a happy death might involve: the absence of mind-numbing pain (but the total absence of pain is not essential), the absence of anger, either because it has been passed through to acceptance, or because it never occurred; a sense of communion with loved ones and with God. Ideally, it also involves a conscious awareness of what is happening, so that there can be a letting go - no greedy clinging or demanding things of others. It may include a grateful looking back at life and expressions of gratitude to loved ones.
Written for a secular world, it is perhaps unsurprising that he does not unpack the 'sense of communion with God', but I would certainly want to be in a State of Grace, and strengthened by the Sacraments.

However Abbot Jamison is surely right to insist on the importance of each of us giving serious thought to what would make our own deaths happy. For if we live our lives in a way that will lead to a happy death, then we are likely to lead happy, and blessed lives. 

Sunday, 13 April 2014

The Gay Identity

I really don't want to write another post about homosexuality.  It is not a topic that interests me greatly.

However, it does seem to be at the forefront of the attack on Christianity at the moment, so it has to be addressed.

Today saw the first 'marriage' of a 'gay' C of E vicar to his partner.Mark Lambert has posted an interesting reflection on that here.

I want to step back from the immediacy of this, and reflect on the muddled thinking that underpins this whole movement.

The argument for 'gay marriage' was probably finally won the day someone coined the slogan Equal Marriage.

Who could vote against equality? Certainly several Catholic MPs felt that they couldn't.

And that is because of the conflation of a tendency to same sex attraction, with the notion of 'being gay'.

Same sex attraction is clearly a natural phenomenon (albeit only because we live in a Fallen World).  We do not know its genesis as the Catechism makes clear; it may be something people are born with, or it may be environmental, or (most probably) a mix of the two.  Likewise, for some it may be a temporary phase, but for others it may be deep-seated and unchangeable.

Whilst same sex attraction is clearly disordered (that is, not ordered to the proper meaning and functioning of human sexuality) it is also not sinful.  Indeed, many who suffer from it struggle heroically and are only to be admired.

It is also worth noting two further points. One is that homosexual temptations seem to be as old as recorded history.  The other is that they are by no means unique.  We are all damaged by the Fall, and this damage includes disordered sexual desires for many, if not all, of us.

However, the gay identity is something quite different.  This is a modern construct; a modern fiction, in fact.

The 'gay identity' makes several leaps of assumption that slip under the radar, not least because nobody wants to be unkind, still less homophobic.

Some of these assumptions are:

1 It is meaningful to adopt an identity based on one characteristic (sexual attraction)

2 Someone who experiences only (or predominantly) same sex attraction is 'gay.'
2a Some people are born gay;
2b Because some people are born gay, it must be normal;
2c Because it is normal it must be morally acceptable.

3 Consensual sexual behaviour is morally acceptable.

4 Sexual behaviour is only the concern of those engaged in it, with no consequences for others.

5 Because of 1, 2, 3, 4 above anyone who thinks differently about this topic is irrational.  Their different thinking is the result either of ignorance or bigotry.

6 Because of centuries of such bigotry, it is important to obtain societal blessing for same sex relationships, to help with the eradication of bigotry.

I don't think it is necessary to say much more, except that none of the assumptions from 1 - 6 are self-evident, and none are above dispute, to say the least. Clearly, orthodox Christians (and many others from other religions, or many who have a sense of history, philosophy or intellectual rigour) do not accept these assumptions.

But if one believes the whole package, then one can only conclude, as the vicar who thinks he has got married today must have concluded, that traditional Christianity is quite wrong about this, and must either be changed or vanquished.

The challenge we face is to discover how to teach the life affirming, love-affirming truths of Christ's Gospel, with clarity and charity, in a society that has largely bought the myth of the Gay Identity.

This path is fraught with difficulty: not least because the notion of love has also been corrupted.  But it is the path we must tread, not least out of love for all those who self-identify as gay. If, as we believe, they are on a path that will lead not to happiness, but to hurt and harm, and ultimately may risk their perdition, we cannot stand idly by.

But I foresee that we will be attacked; for the intelligence behind this lie is the author of all lies. 


Sancte Michael Archangele, defende nos in proelio, 
contra nequitiam et insidias diaboli esto praesidium. 
Imperet illi Deus, supplices deprecamur: 
tuque, Princeps militiae caelestis, 
Satanam aliosque spiritus malignos, 
qui ad perditionem animarum pervagantur in mundo, 
divina virtute, in infernum detrude. 
Amen.




Thursday, 27 February 2014

Slippery Slopes

Whenever 'liberalising' laws are passed, or campaigns are pursued, and backwards folk like me point out the possible next steps and consequences, we are accused of a fallacious 'slippery slope' argument.

So it was with interest that I read Johamn Hari's piece in the Guardian online which is the start of a campaign to break the 'taboo' against incest.

I remember back when Section 28 was being debated, I thought it was probably unnecessary.  After all, we were assured, nobody would want to promote homosexuality in the classroom: this was simply the stuff of bigotry.  Yet what followed? 

When the Civil Partnership legislation was proposed, we were told that nobody would then campaign for same sex 'marriage'.  Yet what followed?

So incest (along with polyamory and all manner of other 'taboos') will soon be found to be acceptable to all but old bigots like me…




Sub tuum praesidium confugimus, Sancta Dei Genetrix.
Nostras deprecationes ne despicias in necessitatibus nostris,
sed a periculis cunctis libera nos semper,
Virgo gloriosa et benedicta.

Saturday, 19 October 2013

Obedience


Reflecting on recent discussions about the Holy Father, Ultramontanism and Papolatry, I was led to think about obedience.

It seems to me that if one had to identify what is so counter-cultural about being a Catholic today, that word sums up a large part of it.

For we are under a duty of obedience to the Holy Father, even when he is not teaching infallibly; even when he is wrong and we disagree, unless to obey would be sinful.

Likewise, we are under a duty of obedience to the civic authorities, in a similar way (CCC §1900)

We are under a duty of obedience to our bishop and our priest, too, come to that, as well as to our employer, if we are employed.

The reason for all that is simple, but rarely stated: it is not that people in such positions are  assumed to be wiser or more virtuous than us.  Rather it is because obedience is good for us; and we only really practice obedience where we disagree with what we are being asked to do. If we agree, then obedience does not really come into it.

And the reason it is good for us is two-fold; on the one hand, we are called to imitate Christ, and one might cite obedience as one of his defining characteristics, and indeed the means by which He restored man’s relationship with God, which had been lost by disobedience. (cf Rom 5:19).  On the other hand, it is through obedience that we die to ourself; that we submit our own desires, passions and will to an authority beyond ourselves: Thy will be done.

Yet how counter-cultural that is. We live in an age where personal autonomy is so highly valued that obedience seems a pointless, and indeed irresponsible, way to behave.  We are told that if we are true to ourselves, then all is virtue.  I think the truth is the other way about: if we are all-virtuous, then we are being true to ourselves.  

The supremacy of obedience to conscience over other forms of obedience can only come into play when our conscience is telling us to do what we do not want to do. Otherwise, it is more likely to be our will, masquerading as conscience.  We can only treat our conscience as sovereign if it is truly well-formed; and the best ways to judge that are how well it accords with the teaching of the Church, and how difficult are the demands it makes of us.  I am somewhat sceptical when people claim to be following their conscience down paths that make their lives easier.

And here’s something else that is counter-cultural: wives are to obey their husbands.  Few people dare talk of that these days, but St Paul is quite clear.

Notice however that St Paul does not say women should obey men. This is not simple mysogynism. No, it relates to roles.  The role of a wife is, above all to be a mother; to raise a family.  Matrimony is ordered to motherhood as its name implies.  So my theory here is that wives are to obey their husbands not because their husbands are more likely to be right, but because otherwise, wives might not have the opportunity to practice obedience.  Husbands, and single women, will have other opportunities - in the workplace etc - but a woman in her own home, raising her children, will obey her husband, or not obey anyone.  And that is not good for her. 

Thursday, 13 June 2013

True tolerance?

I blogged yesterday about tolerance, and forgot the other thing I meant to say.  And that is how bogus such tolerance is.

You will notice that tolerance extends to (eg) prostitution, promiscuity, adultery, homosexuality and other moral issues. But it does not extend to (eg) racism, sexism, homophobia, bullying, conscientious objection to abortion and other offences against the new liberal agenda.

In other words, tolerance merely means there are some things of which society used to disapprove which will now be deemed acceptable; but there are other things that are quite beyond the pale.

Intellectually lazy and dishonest...

Wednesday, 12 June 2013

In praise of intolerance

In a society which seems to have abandoned most moral values, there is only one that seems universally lauded: tolerance.

Yet I do not remember that being on any of the old lists (as Treebeard might have said).  There were the Big Three: Faith, Hope and Charity; and the Cardinal Four: Justice, Prudence, Fortitude and Temperance, then the seven Gifts of the Holy Spirit, and the twelve Fruits of the Holy Spirit, but tolerance?...

And increasingly, I am intolerant of tolerance.

I have not been blogging for a while, as the sun was out and the weeds needed to be dug up (and Mrs T needed to be placated re said weeds).  However, digging the ground elder gave me lots of thinking time.  It is fairly easy, when weeding casually, simply to pull the stuff up, particularly around other plants; and even not to worry about it when it is in the empty spaces in-between: at least it is green and it is ground cover.

But that is a flawed strategy, as the wretched stuff thrives underground, sending long roots throughout the bed, growing up in the midst of your other plants; suffocating them and taking all the goodness out of the soil.

And it struck me (and here you will realise that I missed my vocation and should have been a vicar) that this was just like tolerating error. It may look harmless, but it will take over, and eventually choke truth and even the ability to think.

So whilst I think we should, of course, behave with utmost charity to all, including particularly those who are in error, we should not tolerate error itself.  That has been the fatal weakness of Christianity recently, in my view.

Instead of pretending that we think all points of view are equally valid, we should make a fearless and tireless stand for truth, and confront error.  Dialogue is fine, but it must not be a dialogue that pretends we accept erroneous views as valid; rather a dialogue that seeks the starting point or foundation from which we can evangelise.

Otherwise we risk misleading people both within and beyond the Church, which is a sin against both truth and charity.

Friday, 24 May 2013

The Architecture of Civil Society

I have mentioned before, in another context (Liturgical change) a very wise architect with whom I once spoke. He pointed out that if, in renovating an ancient building, he comes across some part of the structure that he does not understand, he proceeds with great caution.  If there is something ugly, or apparently pointless, or random, then it is foolhardy to pull it out. It is almost certainly there for a reason, and until you have understood that reason, you risk causing great damage by simply removing it.

It seems to me that, as a society, we have been removing structural elements without fully understanding their purpose for some time; and that the structure of society is substantially weakened as a result.

An obvious example is marriage.  The debate about the re-definition of marriage has been so superficial and unthinking, that it can scarcely be dignified with the name of debate.  There has been no understanding shown by those imposing this change that they have any understanding of the structural role of the institution of marriage in society. It is as though they are saying: 'Hmm, don't like the look of that old-fashioned pillar in the middle of the room, and it's a real inconvenience to many: let's pull it out.' And because the ceiling doesn't look as thought it's coming down immediately, they imagine they are doing no harm.

But that is only the latest in a long line of such changes.

I am not only talking about the obvious moral issues, such as the de-stigmatisation of divorce, contraception, promiscuity and abortion; but also about other social habits and taboos: respect and deference for the elderly, mothers staying at home to raise children, stigmatisation of 'the undeserving poor,' and so on... and on.

I am not saying these are all good things to which we should return; rather I am saying that they were there because they served a purpose; to remove them without understanding the purpose they served is folly.  To return to the architectural analogy: that rusty bit of corrugated iron in the corner may be very ugly, and even a hazard.  However, unless we determine why it was placed there (to keep rats out of the larder?...) it is unwise simply to remove it; and it is arrogant and idiotic to declare ourselves more enlightened than our forebears, when we do so without making other provision for the good end it once served.

Tuesday, 7 May 2013

Catholic Defence?

I witnessed a very unpleasant piece of internet bullying last night. A Catholic GP was engaging with some fairly vehement 'pro-choice' people on Twitter, and expressed himself strongly, referring to 'slaughtering babies.'

That got them upset, and they then said they had reported him to the GMC, and also had identified his wife, her facebook account and other details of their life, referring to their activity as 'hunting,' which seemed about right.

The GP has subsequently deleted his Twitter account, and is concerned for his job and his family: please pray for him.

I have no idea if the GMC will take an interest in this case or not; but that fact alone is a sad indictment of how far we have come.

What is undoubtedly the case is that if the current direction of travel is followed much further, many Catholics will find that their professional careers are jeopardised if they express their Catholic convictions in public.  It was interesting to see last night's bullies referring to their target as 'openly Catholic' - another telling phrase...

So I am wondering whether there is any scope for setting up an informal network to support such people when they are in the eye of the storm.

Support must include prayer, of course; but also, I think, practical support, such as access to sympathetic professional colleagues, good legal and union representation and so on; possibly even financial support.

I am sure there are other ways we could consider helping, too. Having a large house and two daughters away at University (and therefore some spare bedrooms - but don't tell the government) I'd be happy to offer a bolt-hole to any family who needs to escape the glare of hostile media for a while, for example.

Any other ideas?

How might this best be co-ordinated?

Because I think the need will be with us very soon, if it is not already upon us...

Monday, 8 April 2013

Sexting...

I keep seeing reports of teenagers indulging in sexting (here  and here for example), and the admonition of parents for failing to monitor their kids' electronic devices (as in the first article linked to).

Clearly this is a serious problem.

But the problem doesn't lie simply with the kids.  Consider this (from that same article): 
Jon Ebert, a psychologist who spoke to the Tennessean had wise words for kids today: “A lot of adolescents are still developing in their mind the ability to think ahead to the consequences. They’re in the moment, and they’re thinking of shock value or just being funny. What they’re not thinking about is the footprint they’re digitally leaving for themselves. They’re not thinking about what that footprint can do to them later on down the road or what effect that footprint can also have on others.”
Is it just me, or is that a profoundly troubling quotation (and editorial comment: 'wise words')? 

If the only advice we can offer to teenagers is to 'think about your digital footprint,' we are completely missing the point.

But I suppose it's the equivalent of 'make sure you use a condom.'

That is, we will not teach good behaviour (morality) for fear of seeming to preach - we will merely offer advice on how to avoid the consequences of immoral behaviour: advice which is doomed to failure, as immoral behaviour has profound and lasting consequences, even if the most obvious and immediate consequences are avoided, and also because all the protections (condoms, wiping computer memories...) are flawed and may fail too.

This seems to me to epitomise the moral bankruptcy that we are leaving as a legacy to the next generation, and it frightens me.

I would never give my kids such advice, any more than I check their mobile phones to make sure they are not taking pornographic pictures of themselves and others - but then I hope (and believe) that we have raised them in such a way as to make such advice, and such checks,  unnecessary.  I could, of course, be wrong, but even so, I think the noxious implications of such advice are such that I refuse to consider giving it anyway.

Sancta Maria purissima - ora pro nobis.

Friday, 4 January 2013

Original Sin


Of all the errors in the modern approaches to teaching and proclaiming the Faith, it strikes me that one of the most foundational is the fear of teaching about Original Sin.

Without understanding this, the Redemption itself makes no sense: if we are not fallen, from what do we need to be saved?  Why should we need to die with Christ in baptism if our unbaptised state is natural blessedness?

Further, how do we understand our experience without a proper understanding of our damaged nature? Why do we experience such conflicts between our desires and what we know to be good; and such difficulty in adhering to our good intentions?  Without realising that we are not as God designed us, this makes little sense.

Finally, how can we begin to understand the glory of Our Lady's Immaculate Conception unless we know what she, uniquely, was preserved from, by the grace of Her Son's love for her?

Original sin seems to me to be the most clearly observable of doctrines.  Betjeman (who often surprises by being so much better than one remembers) caught it well in his poem Original Sin on the Sussex Coast, which concludes:

Does Mum, the Persil-user, still believe
That there's no Devil and that youth is bliss?
As certain as the sun behind the Downs
And quite as plain to see, the Devil walks.

Why then are we so shy of the subject?

I think that there are two reasons.  

One is that, although easy to observe, it is quite difficult to explain. Indeed, the Catechism of the Catholic Church devotes many paragraphs to it, which demonstrates both its importance and its complexity.

The other is that it is against the spirit of the times.  We don't like to talk about negative things.  I seem to remember Archbishop Nichols, for example, saying that talk of sin was a misguided attempt to motivate people.

But without an understanding of sin in general, and Original Sin in particular, we are completely uncatechised: ignorant in our Faith.

As the Catechism says:
God is infinitely good and all his works are good. Yet no one can escape the experience of suffering or the evils in nature which seem to be linked to the limitations proper to creatures: and above all to the question of moral evil. Where does evil come from? (§385)
And further,
Sin is present in human history; any attempt to ignore it or to give this dark reality other names would be futile. (§386)

With regard particularly to Original Sin, the Catechism continues;
The Church, which has the mind of Christ, knows very well that we cannot tamper with the revelation of original sin without undermining the mystery of Christ. (§389)
The Catechism also describes the effects of Original Sin on each one of us:
Although it is proper to each individual, original sin does not have the character of a personal fault in any of Adam's descendants. It is a deprivation of original holiness and justice, but human nature has not been totally corrupted: it is wounded in the natural powers proper to it, subject to ignorance, suffering and the dominion of death, and inclined to sin - an inclination to evil that is called "concupiscence". Baptism, by imparting the life of Christ's grace, erases original sin and turns a man back towards God, but the consequences for nature, weakened and inclined to evil, persist in man and summon him to spiritual battle. (§405)
Later on, the Catechism goes into this issue of concupiscence in more detail:
Etymologically, "concupiscence" can refer to any intense form of human desire. Christian theology has given it a particular meaning: the movement of the sensitive appetite contrary to the operation of the human reason. The apostle St. Paul identifies it with the rebellion of the "flesh" against the "spirit." Concupiscence stems from the disobedience of the first sin. It unsettles man's moral faculties and, without being in itself an offense, inclines man to commit sins. (§ 2515) 
Because man is a composite being, spirit and body, there already exists a certain tension in him; a certain struggle of tendencies between "spirit" and "flesh" develops. But in fact this struggle belongs to the heritage of sin. It is a consequence of sin and at the same time a confirmation of it. It is part of the daily experience of the spiritual battle: 
For the Apostle it is not a matter of despising and condemning the body which with the spiritual soul constitutes man's nature and personal subjectivity. Rather, he is concerned with the morally good or bad works, or better, the permanent dispositions - virtues and vices - which are the fruit of submission (in the first case) or of resistance (in the second case) to the saving action of the Holy Spirit. For this reason the Apostle writes: "If we live by the Spirit, let us also walk by the Spirit." (§2516)
This is all really important to understand at the present time.  Frequently, one hears people say: oh, it’s the way God made me, to justify various aspects of their personality.  

A proper understanding of Original Sin enables us to see past that, and protects us from drawing false conclusions from what we observe and experience.

Thus I may genuinely have been born with some disorder, whether mental, psychological, emotional, spiritual, or sexual; further that disorder may incline me to certain types of behaviour - over-eating, jealous fantasies, watching pornography or whatever.  But to conclude that these are natural to me (part of my God-given identity) and therefore morally allowable, is a false step.

As long as I do not willingly consent to these aberrant thoughts, or act on them, then I am completely without guilt.  However, I am morally responsible for my reaction, and if I react in ways that are against the law of God, then I am guilty of sin.

At present, that is particularly relevant in the realm of sexual identity.  People are quick to say: God created me a homosexual.  But the logic is no different from saying God created me a voyeur, or a paedophile, or bulimic.  If the state is disordered, then the correct response is to resist the resulting temptations, pray for grace, repent if one falls, and persevere in hope.  The mere fact of the inclination does not excuse or justify any resulting behaviour, and certainly does not tell us anything about the morality of such behaviour.

Monday, 17 December 2012

The current crisis...

Am I the only person to see that the exemption of the Church of England from the Same Sex Marriage proposals is somewhat ironic?

I would argue that it would make more sense to impose it on the C of E.  The C of E, after all, has paved the way for this. Consider...:

  • The initial break from Rome removed it from the safeguard of orthodoxy and set a precedent for a State-run Church (and this too was centred on marriage);
  • The 1930 Lambeth Conference attacked the integrity of marriage by moving away from Christianity's previous absolute opposition to contraception, again attacking the integrity of marriage: the two essential goods of love and openness to life;
  • The constant fudging of the issue of divorce and re-marriage, attacking the integrity of marriage with regard to the clear teaching of Our Lord about its indissolubility;
  • The pseudo-ordination of women to the priesthood, lending credence to the superficial view that the difference between man and woman is superficial and irrelevant, rather than profound and full of Divine meaning and intent.
However, that is not to say that the Catholic Church in this country has been blameless.

We too have contributed to allowing the development of a culture in which this is even thinkable (and it it is startling to reflect that it would not have been thinkable till relatively recently).  We should particularly repent of:
  • The dissent, and tolerance of dissent, from Humanae Vitae
  • The collapse of Catholic education
  • The collapse of Catholic evangelisation
  • The scandal of the Soho Masses and other signals sent that suggest homosexual practice is a good (the infamous Filochowski celebratory Mass, for example)
  • The scandal of seeming to approve of Civil Partnerships for homosexual couples.
Perhaps the blame sits more heavily with us: we have the truth, and the guarantee of it, yet still we have colluded with the collapse of moral understanding that provides the context for this reckless attack on civilisation.

The bishops tell us that it is not too late to stop this Bill.  Perhaps they are right, and we should certainly try.  But without a strong moral fightback, even if this Bill fails, another will follow it as night follows day.

There are many people of good will, of many faiths and none, who recognise that re-defining marriage is gravely problematic.

But if we cede the ground on homosexual practice as morally equivalent to married love (eg by approving Civil Partnerships) then we will lose this battle and civilisation will pay a very high price.  The fear of being deemed homophobic should not inhibit us from proclaiming the truth.

What we need to do is find a way to proclaim that truth in love: the truth that human sexuality finds its true expression in chastity; either in marriage, open to life, or in chaste celibacy.  

Most people know that marriage breakdown is an evil: but feel it is inevitable.  Most know that abortion is an evil, but again have given up hope of any better solution.  I suspect most know that homosexuality is intrinsically disordered, but fear even to voice the thought.  Of course we do not seek to persecute people for this affliction, but pretending that it is not an affliction at all has led to where we are today. 

The Church has the right answers to these terrible scourges: it is our duty, in love, to make those answers known.

Come, Holy Spirit, fill the hearts of thy faithful
And kindle in them the fire of thy love.
Send forth thy Spirit, and they shall be created,
And thou shalt renew the face of the earth.

Tuesday, 12 June 2012

Sir Terry Leahy

There was a fascinating, though brief, interview with Sir Terry Leahy, the recently retired CEO of Tescos, on the Today programme this morning, which you can hear here.

He talks about his poor background in Liverpool, his Irish immigrant parents, and attributes his success in business in part to his Catholic junior school, which got him into the grammar school, and instructed him  in moral absolutes.

'The most damaging tendency of all is our sleepwalking into the quagmire of moral relativism, an obsession with tolerance, a wish to please everyone.'

He makes clear the importance of moral absolutes in the world of business: whatever fun academics may have in denying such concepts, in the world beyond academe, they are essential for any human commerce.

Monday, 21 May 2012

Good News for Gays


In all the noise about the campaign for and against Same Sex Marriage, it is very easy for orthodox Christian belief to be seen as anti-homosexual.

This is clearly gravely wrong.  Orthodox Christianity is pro-humanity.  Man is made in the image and likeness of God, was considered worth Our Redeemer giving His life for (each and every one of us), and is willed and destined by God for eternal happiness in heaven, if we accept His offer.

True, man is also broken by original sin and further damaged by personal sin; but none of these, nor any power or principality, can stand between God and man - unless man chooses to refuse God’s grace.

The Gospel of Christ is Good News, not only for mankind as a whole, but for each individual, in his or her own circumstances.

God loves us even as we are now.  But for us to return that love, we must be open to it, and not reject it.  ‘If you love me, keep my commandments...’

So part of the good news for gays must be that they are not trapped or defined by their sexuality, but that in Christ they can find the freedom to love truly, madly, deeply, with integrity - and chastely.

We need to find ways to articulate that good news in a way that will have some chance of being heard and understood, rather than be seen as gay-bashing...

Part of that means upholding the whole of Catholic teaching about human sexuality: including teaching on chastity in marriage and in the single state, openness to life, and so on.  We mustn't be seen to be picking on one type of sexual sin (to which I, for example, I am not tempted) more than all the others (to which I and many of us are tempted).

But we need to do more than that, to help people see the radical love and joy available to them in the Gospel.

I’m not sure how to do that, but am sure it is a vital task.  Any ideas, examples or resources would be of great interest.

Friday, 11 May 2012

Offensive and Homophobic?



The Cranmer blog ran this advertisement and is now receiving threatening emails from the ASA (Advertising Standards Authority) as it is believed by some complainants to be offensive and homophobic.

I am running it because I simply can;t see how anyone could reach that conclusion.

If you can see that, could you please enlighten me in the comms box.

I note that many people who disagree with Cranmer (and me) on Same-Sex Marriage are as mystified, and outraged, at this as I am, according to the many messages Cranmer has received on his blog and Twitter.

More on EF and pro-Life


I have been thinking more about yesterday's post, and wish to add a few things. One is that I am not claiming that people who attend the EF are necessarily more likely to do good works or support charitable organisations than people who attend the OF.  Rather my contention is that they are likely to support different types of charities.  In the OF, many support CAFOD, and Amnesty International (in support of the whole Justice and Peace agenda) as well as excellent organisations such as the SVP.

CAFOD  and AI (who are now actively pro-abortion) are problematic from a Table d’Hôte point of view.  But they are socially acceptable and much-lauded by OF people. EF people are more likely to support specifically pro-Life organisations, in their caring, educational and political work, as well as excellent organisations such as the SVP.

The second point on which I wish to elaborate is that the horizontal (community) focus of the OF can and does lead to real problems, at least from a Table d’Hôte point of view.  Many innovations are introduced that are clearly contrary to the law of the Church, and yet because people like them and priests feel that pastoral sensitivity trumps the law of the Church (or in some cases because they fear that to follow the law would lose them their flocks) they continue.  That simply does not happen in the EF (though I am not saying it is not prone to other problems - but hey are problems less in keeping with the dominant trends in society, and therefore less of a serious risk on a large scale).  If my assumption of intrinsic links between right prayer, right belief and right action is correct, that is clearly problematic. 

Finally, there is a different disposition fostered by each.  The OF is the Easter People orientation.  The EF is the Church Militant.  I think of this in terms of the Mysteries of the Rosary.  The OF seems to focus predominantly on the Glorious Mysteries: the Resurrection and the Descent of the Holy Spirit; the Sorrowful Mysteries are in the dim and distant past.  The EF sees that we are still living in this vale of tears: that our joys (as Our Lady’s) and our luminous insights are shot through with the prescience of the Passion, and that, whilst we are indeed  confident of Our Lord’s victory over sin and death, we are not complacent about our own.  Again, I think these perspectives may influence how we engage with the great evils of our time: the Church Militant sees that fighting is our job.

Thursday, 10 May 2012

Restore the EF to fight abortion?...

So what’s the link between the restoration of the Extraordinary Form to the altars of the Church, and the fight agains evils such as  abortion, eugenic murder, euthanasia etc.

That’s the gauntlet thrown down by Stuart of eChurchblog, and as is my wont, I am rushing in where angels (or those on their side) hesitate to tread.

There are a few ways into this, and I think I’ll take all of them, so bear with me.

Firstly, I think there is a connection between right belief, right prayer and right action.  There is an old saying, lex orandi, lex credendi: the law of prayer is the law of belief.  That is, as our prayer is, so our belief will be.  I would add to that, that as Christians our actions should derive from our prayer and our belief, if it is to be right action.  I mention that as occasionally people (say American nuns' leaders, for example) are silly enough to say we shouldn't worry about issues like liturgy when there are so many social ills to fight.


But the commandment to love our neighbour is the second great commandment: the first is to love the Lord our God: and to do that as He wants requires right prayer.

I would add to that initial starting point, a consideration of the phrase ‘cafeteria Catholicism.’  I don’t really want to get into what that might or might not be, but rather use it as an excuse to move up-market a bit and talk of A la Carte Catholicism and Table d’Hôte Catholicism.

For I believe that one can reasonably, and without being too offensive, compare the Ordinary Form of the Mass with an A la Carte approach, where the priest, liturgy committee and so on can select from a range of options those which will in their view produce the best liturgy for a particular group on a particular day.


On the other hand, the EF is the Table d’Hôte: you receive what you are given, and are grateful and learn to love it.  Isn’t Host a happy word in that context? One thinks of the Eucharistic Host, of course, and of the Hosts of Heaven, and our Heavenly Host, the Lamb himself.

And the good things the Host offers us at His table are not necessarily those which we would choose, but those which He knows, in His infinite love, are going to be best for us. Remember this is a restaurant and the word restaurant is very rich in this context: restaurer in French means both to take refreshment and to restore.

And then the wine: the cup of charity which we are offered to drink, which both warms and consoles, but also may contain our death: Can you drink of the cup?... Not that it is a poisoned chalice, but because Greater love has no man...

(I have previously pushed this metaphor even further, possibly further than it can sustain, here)

My point here is that if we are formed in this way, we are more likely to accept and act on the Church’s teachings and instructions with regard to social and even sexual matters.

Likewise, if we treat our Liturgy in an A la Carte fashion, there is at least the risk that we will treat the teachings of the Church in the same way, and also our obligation to act on them.

That is not merely a theoretical assumption.  When one looks at the congregations in the EF, (and also in those parishes, such as the Oratory parishes, where the approach to the OF is much closer to a Table d’Hôte approach) one often finds, pro rata, more children, more large families, and more pro-life activists.  Or to put it the other way around, people who dissent from the Church are likely to feel more comfortable in an A la Carte liturgy (particularly if they shop around for one which suits their particular tastes) than confronted by the immutable EF.

I think, further, that the vertical attitudes particularly cultivated by the EF make one more aware of one’s duties to God and neighbour, even those duties one might not feel drawn towards, and to define those duties in terms of what God, via His Church, is telling one to do; whereas the more horizontal orientation of the OF may incline one to favour those duties which are more obviously ‘social’ and to define those duties in terms of what one perceives, oneself, to be the ‘loving’ thing to do in any situation.

The old style favours an objective approach to the formation of conscience; the new a more subjective commitment to following one’s conscience.

The trouble with that is that our perception of the most ‘loving’ thing, and the development of our conscience can be affected by original sin, and by the world, the flesh and the devil.  Thus we find Catholics who, despite the clear teaching of the Church, don’t think that abortion, euthanasia and eugenic murder are wrong.

Related to all of this is the issue of a distinct Catholic identity.  It seems to me that that has been significantly eroded by making our liturgy much more similar to that of some other Christians, by losing Latin as our language of worship, by losing many of our Holy Days of Obligation (and until recently by losing Friday abstention).  We have lost what it feels like to be counter-cultural, and have become comfortable in our current culture - which makes it much harder to fight such cultural trends as accepting abortion etc as a 'necessary evil' or even as 'essential for equality.'

Finally, the restoration of the EF would force people to confront the fact that they are under authority.  The final authority is, of course, God Himself.  But the Church, particularly in the person of the Holy Father, is His vicar. That reminder, that we do not choose our own path, but must take up the Cross whether we like it or not, is more likely, it seems to me, to galvanise concerted action against great but slightly distant moral evils, than the OF approach.

This feels like a rather rambling attempt at an answer: I will be interested in any questions, counter-arguments, or indeed demonstration that I am wrong or flawed in my reasoning.

Friday, 16 March 2012

A Bogus Consultation

The Government's Consultation on Same Sex Marriages is clearly bogus.

They have already decided what they intend to do, and the consultation is a cynical attempt to make it look as though they have some sort of mandate to do it.  They have not. Nor do they have the power, the competence nor the right to abolish marriage and replace it with a meaningless romantic construct.

I was going to analyse the Consultation document, but awoke to find that The Thirsty Gargoyle has done a far better job that I would have done, here.

It is also worthy of note that the survey can only be completed once from one computer: so those of us married couples with only one computer will find that one of us is excluded.  Likewise, those who have access to several, or to iPads etc, have multiple votes.

Laurence 'The Bones' England has produced another fascinating bit of analysis, showing who is actually funding the LGBT lobby, here. Does that explain why it is such a priority for a government which (one might imagine) has more pressing concerns to address?

Finally, the assurance offered to pacify religious people that they will not be required to conduct Same Sex Marriages are worth precisely the same as the assurances we were given in '67/68 that nobody would be forced to participate in abortions against their will - that is absolutely nothing.

For the agenda here is not about equal legal rights -that has already been achieved with Civil Partnerships - it is about culture change: legislating for equal esteem and approval.  And while the Church (and the other Christian denominations, and religions) continues to witness to the truth, the battle will continue.

UPDATE: An important, if rather unpleasant, question that has not been addressed is that of consummation of so-called same sex marriages.  Cranmer has blogged on it: unpleasant reading but a very important subject.

Sunday, 26 February 2012

On being a bigot

When someone calls me a bigot, before I jump up and down and get upset, I need to think.
In particular, I need to think about two things: what did he intend, and what did he mean?
His intention may be benign (eg it is humourous joshing); or while his intention may be to offend, his actual meaning may be positive (eg he regards as a bigot anyone who defends historic Christianity). Only when I have ascertained both of these, to the best of my ability, will I know how to respond.


Before I go any further, I should make it clear that I am not condoning the intention to offend, nor the online bullying which I have observed recently in some quarters, nor condemning people who get understandably upset when on the receiving end of such bullying - I am going somewhere else with this.


Let us consider the case of someone who is upset, angry, outraged and so on, when they learn that the Catholic Church refers to homosexual orientation as objectively disordered.
Whilst their initial reaction of upset, anger and outrage may be understandable, it may not be reasonable.  To reach an informed response they need to understand both what the Church means by this statement, and what it intends by it.  Only then are they in a position to pass intelligent comment on it.


That, of course, takes both a degree of good will, and some intellectual work (including at least temporary suspension of prejudice).  These are not always present, in the current climate.
So what does the Church mean? What does she intend?


To understand her meaning, we need to understand the context within which she is talking about human sexuality at all, her overall understanding of human sexuality, and the precise meaning she attaches to the words quoted.


To understand her intention, we have to examine what she claims to intend, and decide whether we believe that claim, or whether we discern a different intention, and if so on what evidence we base that discernment.


I will try to explain these things as clearly as I can: I am not a trained theologian or philosopher so if anyone finds fault with my reasoning or my expression of it, please feel free to correct or clarify as appropriate.


Taking the meaning first: the Church understands human beings as created good by God, endowed with both natural and supernatural gifts, but damaged by that primeval catastrophe known as the Fall.


One of the results of the Fall is that all humanity is disordered: instead of being inclined towards what is ultimately good - both objectively good and good for us individually and collectively - we are inclined towards secondary goods, which, when pursued at the expense of the ultimate good, become evil: something that diverts us from the good.


One particular example of that is human sexuality: it was created as a good by God, the very means by which we can express love, which is union with Him as well as with another human, and also the means by which we can share in His creative act, by procreating.  Its correct context is matrimony: the union of a man and a woman, indissoluble, faithful, and open to children.  In this context, sex is not only good, but holy.  Any other use of sex, in thought or deed, is disordered.  That includes, but is not limited to, pornography, masturbation, fornication, attraction to children, attraction to people of the same sex, and so on. 


Since the Fall, humans have struggled with all these, and other, problems with sexuality; sometimes introducing selfishness, or the assertion of power, or the separation of the unitive from the procreative; or finding that their inclinations are not aligned with the purpose of procreation and love.  In all these cases, it is correct to speak of an objective disorder: our passions are not ordered as they should be, to the final purpose and intrinsic meaning of sexual love.


This is not a label that is used as a hate term for people who are attracted to those of the same sex.  In fact the Church has 'harsher' language, if you will, for heterosexual couples who separate the unitive from the procreative by the use of artificial methods of birth control: contraception is described as 'shameful and intrinsically vicious' in Casti Conubii.


To return to 'objectively disordered,' it is worth considering the Church's intention in using this phrase.  The first thing to notice is that it is not an attack on the dignity of individuals who experience homosexual attraction. Look at the very next words in the Catechism, immediately after the famous 'objectively disordered' phrase: 
This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God's will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord's Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.
(CCC § 2358)
This is scarcely the language of hate.

The Church's intention, in teaching thus, is to proclaim the truth, in order that all may be saved.  It may be that one believes it to be wrong, but to claim it is bigoted is to impute either meaning or intention to it other than those claimed by the Church; and to do that, one should really bring some evidence to bear.

In fine, if my believing and proclaiming what the Church has always believed and proclaimed means some people wish to call me a bigot, that is a label I will take as a compliment - and a reflection more on them than on me.

Thursday, 23 February 2012

False Gods

It seems to me that modern Western societies have made false Gods out of (inter alia):
  • Equality
  • Autonomy
  • Democracy
  • Choice
  • Tolerance

That is not to say that these are not goods, but that they are not ultimate goods.  When they are elevated to absolute status, they are not only destructive, they are self-destructive.

C S Lewis (of course) identified the problem accurately in First and Second Things: 
The woman who makes a dog the centre of her life loses, in the end, not only her human usefulness and dignity but even the proper pleasure of dog-keeping. 
The man who makes alcohol his chief good loses not only his job but his palate and all power of enjoying the earlier (and only pleasurable) levels of intoxication. 
It is a glorious thing to feel for a moment or two that the whole meaning of the universe is summed up in one woman—glorious so long as other duties and pleasures keep tearing you away from her. But clear the decks and so arrange your life (it is sometimes feasible) that you will have nothing to do but contemplate her, and what happens? 
Of course this law has been discovered before, but it will stand re-discovery. It may be stated as follows: every preference of a small good to a great, or partial good to a total good, involves the loss of the small or partial good for which the sacrifice is made. 
. . . You can’t get second things by putting them first. You get second things only by putting first things first.

So if we pursue equality, say, as an ultimate good, we end up not just doing a great deal of harm, but also undermining equality itself.

How does that work?  Well, consider the issue of equality for women: a laudable aim, in many ways.  But when pushed to the extreme, we find that it includes the right of women to kill their unborn children - for being female.  See the comments under Madeleine Teahan’s Guardian Online article for a very stark demonstration of that simple truth.

With very little effort one can see the same principle at work when any of these other secondary goods is elevated to the status of an absolute good.

What we are called to do, of course, is to acknowledge that God is the top of the hierarchy.  These secondary goods (equality and the rest) are often useful indicators of where something has gone wrong; if they are being abused, it is a clue, worthy of investigation.  Even democracy (eg when operated in a corrupted society) is not sovereign.  It is (normally) a safeguard; it is not an absolute good.

Even in terms of a scale of values, these principles are not ultimate.  According to Catholic tradition, we should always start with Faith, Hope and Charity, and then consider Justice, Fortitude, Temperance and Prudence.  Apply those to the abortion debate and, not surprisingly, you get a completely different, and far more humane, set of priorities for both mother and child.

Wednesday, 1 February 2012

A strange silence...

A few days ago, I wrote a post about my understanding of marital consent, and the use of the word ‘rape’ in that context.

I went to some lengths to point out that:

a) it was my understanding, and if faulty I was open to correction;  (I wrote: My point is very specific: as I understand it, (and of course I am open to correction if I have misunderstood)

b) I was not in any way condoning any behaviour in marriage that falls short of a very high standard of charity (for example, I wrote: Use of threats, force or violence in that context are  sinful, and also may well be criminal.)

A number of people have reacted very strongly to that post.  Some have misread or misunderstood it and then denounced me, some publicly and some privately, for ‘condoning rape’.  I had thought that I had made it quite clear that I was doing nothing of the sort.

Some seem to have read it more carefully and said it is wrong.

Nobody has told me why it is wrong.

The nearest I have had to any explanation of that view is that ‘it is even worse in marriage’ and that I risk ‘giving some men the idea that they can force their wives into sex.’

Neither of these wholly understandable objections address the issue I was raising.  It may be that I was imprudent in raising the issue at all, of course, but that is different from my understanding being wrong.
The question I still have is: is one of the undertakings of the marriage vows the total self-giving of the body to the other ‘in all things not inconsistent with Christian piety,’ as Trent has it.

The background to my understanding is that this is what I was taught at an early age: to be honest I don’t even remember by whom or when.  It has always been part of my understanding of marriage.  Given that, I then look at things like the Catechism of the Council of Trent, and find sentences that seem to point to the same idea: that the gift of each to the other, specifically of their body, is at the heart of the marital covenant: the marriage contract is not a mere promise, but a transfer of right, by which the man actually yields the dominion of his body to the woman, the woman the dominion of her body to the man.

Now as with all Church teaching, one must not take a single line as a proof text and build too much on it.  Trent also says: ‘marriage is not to be used for purposes of lust or sensuality, but that its use is to be restrained within those limits which, as we have already shown, have been fixed by the Lord. It should be remembered that the Apostle admonishes: They that have wives, let them be as though they had them not, and that St. Jerome says: The love which a wise man cherishes towards his wife is the result of judgment, not the impulse of passion; he governs the impetuosity of desire, and is not hurried into indulgence. There is nothing more shameful than that a husband should love his wife as an adulteress.’

I hope that I expressed that part of the teaching when I wrote:  Indeed, the standards of love expected of either spouse are very high indeed: husbands must be prepared to give their lives, not just sacrifice their lust, for the love of their wives.  Wives, likewise, must love their husbands.

Clearly, if I am wrong in this, it is a serious misunderstanding. As I say, I am open to correction on this, as on anything I write. Some while ago I wrote about the dangers of making absolute truth claims.  The only truth-claim I made for that post was that it was my understanding of Catholic teaching: and that was true.


UPDATE: see subsequent post